Expressions of hatred

I have received vitriolic expressions of hatred on my blog and they are/were often about the question: Are you gay? But it does/did not matter if/or how I answer the question because as soon as I done that there is/was a new comment about how ugly and gay I am. I say: Stand up, be proud and people need to stop making these assumptions or they can make assumptions but stop pointing them out as facts. This is an important subject because I know that I am not the only one who receive these kind of comments.